Are You Building a Career, or Just Getting Promoted?
Ambition, ladders, money, and the uncomfortable possibility that professional progress can move you further away from the life you actually wanted.
Published 6 August 2026
About this conversation
We start with a simple question and spend an hour refusing to let each other off the hook: what is the career actually for? Somewhere between the promotion, the title change and the salary review, a lot of us stopped asking. We talk about the difference between building something and being moved up something, why the ladder is such a seductive metaphor, and what happens when the job you optimised for hands you a life you did not choose.
“Every promotion is not necessarily progress. Sometimes it is just a faster version of the same direction.”
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